The third year anniversary has leather and crystal or glass in the list while the fourth anniversary year dictates the traditional gift as something made up of books, flowers and fruit while the modern gift has electrical appliances on the list. Gemstones like the Amethyst and Topaz are also associated with this fourth year wedding anniversary gift chart. Some people do not have the time anymore to make gifts. With people constantly on the go, they cannot anymore devote time to knit a sweater or make a photo album. As compromise, some people just buy items that are already made and then make it more personalized by adding design elements such as embroideries and stitchings. This always happen whenever the gifts that are bought are already exact copies of gifts that were previously given or those that the person will not have any use at all. Sometimes, it is better to just ask the person what else do they need and endeavor to provide that for him. This is especially true with couples who are newly-married or those who have just tied the knot recently. One thing that you have to remember is to make your gift more personalized. Even if it is something that you can buy anywhere, you can put something in it to make it different. For instance if you bought an oven toaster, why not include something that they can cook or bake with the oven toaster? You can also make your own gifts. Through the years, people have continued this tradition by giving each other jewelry, a pen or a clock that is made of gold. It takes a lot of love and patience to make a couple last this long in a relationship. Instead of these two giving something, shouldn't it be time for the children and grandchildren to offer something back? This was arranged more than 3 months in advance and the only thing to iron out were the other small details to make this as memorable as possible. The plan started at 6 am of that day. There was going to be breakfast in bed with Mary's favorite rose on a vase with the favorite dish of sausage and eggs.