From birth, we were equipped with all the skills that we will use in the later stages of our lives. One such skill is the ability to face challenges and to face them with faith, both in ourselves and to Him who has created all of us. All of us had an equal chance to develop our sense of self, even when it feels like our fellow is much blessed than us. All we need is to take the positive attitude and make ourselves believe that some things are meant to fail on our first trials and then luck would follow us. Our route for development is always towards a specific goal. And since nothing comes from nothing, it is unarguable that we were innately confident. Many resources now dismiss this possibility. In fact, they affirm that sufferers from this condition must not be praised everytime simply because they cannot easily accept compliments. This is the same with arguing with people who are so sure of themselves. Unconfident people may not be sure at many things yet their belief does not falter when it comes to their capacities. With lack of poor models or lack of encouragement from those we have learned to associate respect and trust on, it would be likely that our maturity would be marked by ambiguity of self image. We know for a fact that parents only act according to what they deem appropriate or best for their children. It is also one way of recognizing the real condition of things when people begin to take dominance. But it may also be used as a help to recognize other people's failure to act or when we become invisible ourselves. Invisibility is an entrapment we must all avoid to maintain an ideal state of confidence and self esteem. To get self confidence, you must realize that your limitations must not limit you and your attributes must not destroy you. Instead, use all these factors to develop a personality that would be productive for you and all those that surround you. "Know thyself!", says the Oracle at Delphi. Though this might have been said thousands of years ago, it is undeniably true that we still can use the wisdom it says.