Mars and Venus in Austin It s true: men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Men and women are worlds apart when it comes to thinking, feeling and doing things. This difference is highlighted most especially in the game of dating. It has gotten harder and harder to find a nice date that won t end up really badly or at least end hopefully. Why do we have to go through countless of hours and nights of single dates that may not end in the way we want it to. There must be a way to speed up the process of prospecting, dating and going into a relationship without having to waste precious time. The answer to this really is speed dating. Finding the right speed dating service to suit your needs and requirements may be the key to adding romance and love into your life. Although it may not be considered as a normal date for some, speed dating allows people to have the chance of getting to know other singles before they ever commit to go on an actual date. This has proven to be a better method than going on blind dates which can sometimes end in disaster. Speed dating can also help people get in touch with other dating singles in their area. Some of the speed dating services in Chicago just post an ad inviting single people to attend the party. There are no discounts here or memberships so those who want to join will have to pay a flat fee inclusive of one drink. There are times that at the end of the event that person will not get matched up with anyone in the group. They will then inform you of your match or matches and then it's out of their hands. Once you've been given the contact information, it's up to you to make the moves and set up a real date. The speed dating organizers are only there to point you to the right direction it's up to you to find the means to get there. More often than not, entries to speed dating events require pre-registration and pre-payment of the registration fees. Events like these commonly take place in a nice place such as a nice restaurant or even a great, cozy bar. The atmosphere will depend on the organizers of the event. The event could have a formal, casual or party setting.