The majority of people with too low self confidence recognizes the potentials of what social skills might offer them yet they lack the control that will help them conquer their fears. Many of us think that the immediate cure to too low self confidence is to compliment them with their capacities and for jobs that went well. However, we all need recognition and as such, we have to develop our physical presence, both for self realization and for other people's appreciation. A good physical presence would help us communicate our dominance or at least our value in a circle of people. It is also one way of recognizing the real condition of things when people begin to take dominance. It may not be out of our chronological age that we would mature but the fact is, we would still mature regardless of the time we would take. Sometimes, development comes out naturally. Sometimes, we would need effective stimulation. Self confidence roots down from these two. Development of self confidence may suddenly dawn on you. Many of us may have denied this truth though. But you see, it is obvious- everybody is capable of doing anything only if we give our hearts into it and we set our minds in doing it. No one is deprived of the capacity to enjoy life's successes. Only those who deprive themselves of these gifts are the sufferers. If you find it hard to detach yourself from the actual situation or to stay away from thought rumination, you may rely on other people's assistance. But you see, any form of self analysis is beneficial so long as it is properly guided. Depending on your focus, you can either help take out yourself from having too low self confidence or to land on the floor face flat. You may not have deliberately said it recently but since you are used to hearing yourself mumble- "I am a looser", or "I'm not worthy of anything", your subconscious self might as well believe that these are the facts. Even now as we speak, many out there believe in these statements.