The sad thing, in some of these cases, due to selfish motives of some negative minds, tragedies happen in the course of time during the couple's life if eventually, they passed thru to marriage stage. It doesn't happen in telltales, but are "real" happenings, that passed on global news updates. Because of this, one can be sure that people in the group have good intentions. This is important especially when dealing with people who do not have the time to play games like the rest of the pack that are lounging in bars. Participants in the speed dating event will then be given the opportunity to talk to each of the participants from the opposite sex. The Jewish Speed dating is a social gathering of group of singles in one organized social environment ushered to the great advantage of interacting with each other by means of interchanging dates between males and females; effective in choosing future mate-types, each, within a specified minutes conversation encounters. After the 8 minute time limit, they go to one of the other prospects on their list. After each participant has met with their prospects for the night, they are still allowed to mingle and meet up with other people they find interesting. And to keep everything safe and the atmosphere comfortable, the participants in the event are prohibited to give out their contact information to anyone they meet at the event. He devised this way of dating for Jewish singles to meet each other and bond when in large cities such as New York where non-jews outnumber them. In fact, speeddating as a single word is a trademark that Aish has been using for his projects. The two-word speed dating phrase is a term used for other events with similar slant. Speed dating is a means of helping single guys and girls meet up with each other through a planned event. Speed dating hosts usually set up a party in one of the hippest or coolest bar locations for singles in the area. This speed dating party allows participating singles to gather together and take part in one of the most exciting and novel match making methods ever to hit the country ever since online dating was introduced.