Getting Started With Single Parenting Single parenting has becoming some sort of a trend in most countries in the world. Some say it's bad because it destroys the very basic unit of any society while others believe that it's a good sign that people now know how to decide for themselves. The advantages and disadvantages of being a single parent could go on and on. Single Parenting (Mother-only and Father-only cases) According to figures, vast majority of single parenting cases are female-headed. Male-headed single parenting cases are commonly as a result of widowhood or mother refusing custody. In case of divorce, a father increases their chances of winning custody when they pay child support or when the children are older and chooses the father. If you want to start with your new life with your child, try to finish each day and forgive yourself for the things that you were not able to accomplish. If you were able to do that, you will look forward to a new day and new opportunities that will come along your way in your journey. The road to successful single parenting Separation means that the whole family falls apart. Remember that you already have one baggage your child that a potential partner has to deal with. Don t add another one by springing in some commitment and love issues. If you are not yet ready, do not force it. Love will come naturally when the world feels that you are ready to be in a relationship again. You are young and because you have not really been able to enjoy life, you will probably miss singlehood. If you find yourself at this crossroad, just think about your baby and how his or her future depends on you. Mothers have instincts and as idealistic as it sounds, most will do the right thing and prioritize their children. Here are some tips that can help you survive the life of single parenting: 1. How to get through over guilt - As a single parents it is likely for you to have moments of insecurity about your ability to raise your children alone. Feelings of guilt, regret, or even frustration are part of your unsuccessful attempt of giving your children a complete family.